Condomless Sex: How to Reduce Risk Without Shame
Let us begin with honesty, beloveds: not everyone uses condoms every time. Some people use condoms consistently. Some use them with new partners but not regular partne...
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Let us begin with honesty, beloveds: not everyone uses condoms every time. Some people use condoms consistently. Some use them with new partners but not regular partne...
Read ArticleConsent is not a mood killer. Consent is not a legal form in triplicate. Consent is not a whispered technicality squeezed in between kissing and bad decision-making. C...
Read ArticleCondoms get most of the safer-sex spotlight, but they are not the only performers on the stage. Dental dams, gloves, internal condoms, and condoms used on toys can all...
Read ArticleWhen we talk about safer sex, people often think about condoms, testing, PrEP, PEP, and communication. All important. All blessed. All welcome at the altar. But there...
Read ArticleHookup apps can be fun, convenient, affirming, messy, direct, awkward, exciting, and occasionally a full theater production in your messages. Whether you use Grindr, S...
Read ArticleLet us sing the praises of lubricant: the unsung diva of safer, more comfortable sex. Lube can reduce friction, increase comfort, support condom use, and make many kin...
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