Condomless Sex: How to Reduce Risk Without Shame
Let us begin with honesty, beloveds: not everyone uses condoms every time. Some people use condoms consistently. Some use them with new partners but not regular partne...
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Let us begin with honesty, beloveds: not everyone uses condoms every time. Some people use condoms consistently. Some use them with new partners but not regular partne...
Read ArticleConsent is not a mood killer. Consent is not a legal form in triplicate. Consent is not a whispered technicality squeezed in between kissing and bad decision-making. C...
Read ArticleCondoms get most of the safer-sex spotlight, but they are not the only performers on the stage. Dental dams, gloves, internal condoms, and condoms used on toys can all...
Read ArticleHookup apps can be fun, convenient, affirming, messy, direct, awkward, exciting, and occasionally a full theater production in your messages. Whether you use Grindr, S...
Read ArticleLet us tell the truth, sweetlings: talking about safer sex can feel awkward. But so can pretending you are fine with something when you are not. So can wondering later...
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Open the package carefully. Pinch the tip of the condom with your thumb and fingers to make sure that there is no air in the tip (this creates space to collect semen)....
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